I am now at an age where friends are calling me to help with their prearrangements.  Yesterday was my 4th this year.  As I accompanied him into the selection room I was once again met with a flat line pricing strategy (see How To Get Customers to Stop Fixating on Price) and I really like it.  But what immediately caught our eye was the Trappist casket on display.  We didn’t spend a lot of time on it.  He selected a solid walnut from another part of the room but I was struck immediately by the subliminal message the presence of this odd piece of merchandise communicated.

I know that this will offend the carefully laid out plans of the merchandising experts but I would like you to look at it from the consumer’s eyes.  I have come to believe that we suffer the same affliction relative to public perception that the main line denominations are experiencing.  Potential congregants (in our case customers) are looking for new and different ways to worship (in our case memorialize).   Without deep reflection or investigation they perceive us as rigid and inflexible and, consequently, unresponsive.  Sadly, and we all do this at times, they never give us a chance to show them otherwise.  They just pass us by…both judged and condemned without trial.

Paul Seyler of “Competitive Resources” recently shared that when an industry is stuck with a negative stereotype the best way to exceed customer expectations is to contradict the stereotype.  The Trappist casket did that in a powerful way.  It sparked a brief but meaningful conversation about change in the funeral business and how that funeral home was working hard to meet the needs of an increasingly diverse customer base.  It  conveyed a strong impression that this firm was both flexible and responsive to new ideas and different preferences.  So, even it means messing up that finely tuned merchandising system you paid $50,000 for I think I would have one on display.

Oh! And yes, I would probably want to send a news release to the local news media.  You never know you might just hit it right and get some nice free publicity.